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The Lobby and Anything Goes

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Alicja, wherever you are, it would be so nice to hear from you again.

I’ll be seeing you
In all the old familiar places… –Irving Kahal

Update May 2011: Michele White has written a book titled “The Body and the Screen – Theories of Internet Spectatorship”. It runs some 200 pages, not including notes and end credits. By the sound of it, she was being paid to sit and chat. The book is copyrighted in 2006.

Club Gabbay gets an honorable mention at the bottom of page 29. I wonder how much time she spent in the rooms, and what character names she used. She has more publications to her credit, so it’s obviously not a thesis. Michele, if you’re out there, come by and say hello.

Link to Michele’s publication on Amazon here. Unfortunately, the pdf has been removed.

I found the link to a record of some very old ClubGabbay chats that Confuzer (Rutger) mentioned in his comment, below. There’s quite a few of them. Read and enjoy. Don’t neglect **ArRoW**’s Chat Center guest book below, either.

Update October 2009: With the closing of GeoCities domain and web sites at the end of October 2009, all the old familiar places will be gone for good. Here’s a link to **ArRoW**’s Chat Center guest book. Take a look at some of the old entries for some memorable names.

Update April 2007: It is with great sadness that I announce the passing of Alf on April 24, 2007, known to us all as Fozzie. While Fozzie was working in his woodlot, harvesting trees to turn them into lumber for a building he wanted to construct, the little Furpot was called to the great kitchen in the sky, where beautiful cooks and lovely waitresses prepare and serve the finest foods and sweetest desserts known to exist, just for him. Fozzie will be sadly missed by all of his good and kind friends from Australia to North America and places in between.

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ClubGabbay's notable chat background

The Lobby chat room background from ClubGabbay. I did a little color enhancing to make the background more recognizable.

Back in the ’90s there was a chat site known as ClubGabbay, or Anything Goes. It consisted of a number of rooms, most notably the wildly popular “Anything Goes” chamber, but also a more tame room known as “The Lobby”. The crazies–of which I was one, I sheepishly admit–populated Anything Goes, while more sane individuals among us were known to frequent the Lobby.

(How many of us discovered ClubGabbay from the Healthy Choice Chat Center? I know I was one that initially found the Healthy Choice room, but soon thereafter migrated to ClubGabbay and Anything Goes.)

In the search engines, the site was listed as being one for music appreciation, but from what I saw, no one who came in talked much about music. Eventually, in the late ’90s, the owner of the site attempted to sell his somewhat mediocre audio recordings to fund the operation, but that bombed big-time. Eventually the entire place collapsed into the one remaining room known as The Lobby.

The chat room eventually ended up being given or sold–I’m not sure which–to a couple of people. Then the trolls arrived, during which time a couple of the regulars using multiple handles actually ended up destroying the place. Finally, the Lobby imploded and was closed. The domain remains still, but it comes up as a commercial search site, listing mostly inane plastic cookware and travel sites–such a fall for a once-popular and widely-known series of chat rooms.

During the course of the site’s operation, I went on the road to meet many of the chat site regulars, who were physically located far and wide across North America and the world. Most of those I met were located in North America, but some from offshore ended up visiting, and I eventually rode to meet them also.

When the chat room closed, we were limited to the various messenger services and their limitations. The crazy days were long gone by then, and the silliness that had pervaded the old site no longer ruled in the one-on-one world of the IM chat clients. If you couldn’t post a link to a silly picture, what was the point? Stay in touch without that? No, thanks. Consequently, we all went our various ways, and most ended up falling off the map.

I think it would be mildly interesting to find out what all the crazies are doing now. From personal contact, I know that a few have completed their Masters or PhDs, some have gotten married, others are having babies, and still more are doing what they always did, working away and killing time in other chat rooms or forums. Some have passed on from this life and are now in a kinder, gentler place but will continue to live on in our chat room memories.

It was a fun time in the early days of the wide-open chat room environment, but eventually most of us lost contact while moving on to live our lives.

Here’s a link to a forum, not often used, for all the old familiar faces.

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1 Eugene November 18, 2007 at 4:01 pm

I’m sorry to hear what happend to Foz. He was a nice fellow.

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2 RF November 18, 2007 at 5:33 pm

He is missed by all of us.

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3 Glenn Dufty October 2, 2008 at 9:41 pm

I lived in the lobby with a ton of friends most of which escape my memory. There was Verdei (California), Bluerose (Melbourne Aus) and Lizardking from Norway. My handle was CrazyCanuck (Glenn Dufty/Toronto/Canada and I’ve lost touch with these people. Anybody have a clue where to find them?

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4 RF October 3, 2008 at 6:51 am
5 Justin March 7, 2009 at 1:13 am

Wow I remember the Lobby from ages and ages ago. I remember the stupid Ferrari contest that was up for like a year. I heard Mike gave it to Verdeii or something?

The news about Foz really sucks. I didn’t know him very well but I knew him enough to know that he was an alright dude.

Man, I wish the Lobby was still up. Whatever happened to Damaris? She was such a bitch.

Anyway, when I was 19 I left home and hit the road, hopped some freight trains, lived in national forests, went to Cali, etc. I came back to the east coast, I got a job, live with my girlfriend, and am probably going to become an EMT.

Oh yeah, this is Justin, one of the trolls that was always causing problems. :P

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6 Jennie March 24, 2009 at 7:39 pm

I loved that place. I was jenniebear and used to speak to Lizardking, lobo and xoxo mostly. I remember verdeii and damaris as well.

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7 Psycho Boy August 15, 2009 at 12:16 pm

This is August 2009 and for some reason I Googled Club Gabbay this morning just to see if it was still around. Found this article. Recognize a few names. It was a fun, fun chat room. I used to love to torment the admin, get kicked off, the log on by another name and torment him/her some more. I’m a lawyer working in SC now, and I try to behave appropriately MOST of the time.

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8 joon/justajess October 7, 2009 at 8:05 am

I was Joon.. and then justajess on clubgabbay and made a lot of friends on there. I was friends with CDV, Roses, Damaris, arrow, verdeii, and many others. If you remmber me; just send an email. I miss the old gabbay, I’ve been married for nine and years and I will have my third child in Dec.

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9 RF October 7, 2009 at 8:35 am

Joon, I don’t publish email addresses, but if anyone should ask me for it, I’ll get in touch with you to confirm that you indeed want to hear from that person.

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10 Lucky January 11, 2010 at 8:57 pm

hey everyone whats up ? sorry to hear about foz man…anyone here from milk ?

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11 RF January 12, 2010 at 7:28 am

No, nothing from Milk. I miss her crazy-ass antics.

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12 Brandon July 22, 2010 at 5:46 pm

Hey it’s Bossman! Talking about a blast from the past. Rf please pass on my email address to anyone that asks. Also get me in contact with Mrs Joon!

What’s everyone doing now? I was just thinking about moonlight, Eli, and some others when I decided to search club gabbay

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13 RF August 16, 2010 at 2:38 pm

Oh miiilk, are you out there, hiding somewhere in the world? Are you well? Are you happy? MedMan wants to know.

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14 Spectre/Quitestorm/Dave October 3, 2010 at 5:35 pm

It was years ago I was last at clubgabby…. so many people. Those were fun times. Gothika/Weyme, Delta, Verdeii, Bluerose, Damaris…

seems to be virtually impossible to find anyone again… :(

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15 RF October 4, 2010 at 9:20 am

While it was fun to participate in the madness of ClubGabbay’s various chat rooms, we’ve now all gone our separate ways. Other than this blog post, I know of no other sites. The link at the bottom of this post goes to a forum I set up, but it’s not much used.

http://twolane.forumco.com/default.asp

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16 Solarix / Blazer / MasterHacker~025 November 9, 2010 at 6:27 am

wow… Just googled clubgabbay. Miss those days

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17 **verdeii** November 13, 2010 at 7:56 pm

Wow! I can’t believe I found this page. Thanks, Meds, for keeping it going. I remember all the names mentioned here. Hopefully some of the other regulars will get bored like I did and google Club Gabbay and find their way here. I looked up Nicholas Shades’ Facebook and signed up there. Maybe some of us can reconnect that way. Of course, I don’t know a lot of people by their real name so it makes it hard to reconnect. Mine is Caryn. (FYI, Gabbay did not give me his Ferrari. LOL Where do these rumors get started? LOL)

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18 Dave November 27, 2010 at 8:40 pm

Hey Caryn/**verdeii**

Hows life? Spectre aka Dave here. Just thought I would say hello :)

Dave

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19 Caryn December 5, 2010 at 12:35 am

Spectre/Dave! How are you doing? I’m doing great. Still living in Los Angeles. Working way too much, although I shouldn’t complain about that with so many people out of work these days.

I got married three years ago to a fellow Club Gabbay’er. His name is also Dave from British Columbia. We did the long distance thing for almost six years till we couldn’t do it anymore and he took the leap and moved down here.

Do you keep in touch with anyone from the old hangout? MedMan is really the only one I keep in touch with now and again. The others have all gone away. I sorta miss those days.

What’s going on with you?

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20 RF December 5, 2010 at 9:10 am

Greetings and salutations, former Gabbay peeps! It’s so nice to hear from so many of you here in the comments. I’ve been over to the Shades, but I can’t figure out what’s going on there, so I’ve not been back.

Ah, yes, the Ferrari. I’d forgotten all about that. What was the point of the Ferrari again? Rumors. Aren’t they grand?

I’m glad you found the place. Occasionally people turn up through a search. As far as I know, this is the only one that shows up in the results.

Meds

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21 Skye aka Mother of 3 December 30, 2010 at 6:07 pm

Hey MedMan! Miss ya!

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22 RF December 30, 2010 at 6:09 pm

Hey there, girl! What’s new? Nice of you to find the place and take the time to stop by and post a comment.

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23 Skye aka Mother of 3 December 30, 2010 at 6:04 pm

hey everyone…….Club Gabbay was my first chat experience….. miss so many of you all

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24 Mike January 2, 2011 at 6:09 pm

Wow…I used to chat quite a bit back in the day, hell, nobody probably remembers me. I used to go under: *majikman*, *blackrain*, and *badmoonrising*. It’s cool to see that a lot of people still think about gabbay, it owned me for quite a few years.

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25 C@rsten April 9, 2011 at 2:01 pm

Hey guys,

anyone remember the good old german guy who often helped out as admin?
Damn it I think I forgot my nick… Too many chats *g*
But I remember many of you like Spectre, Joonie and many others.

Gabbay was a cool experience for me and my first world-wide chat experience…

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26 Confuzer May 23, 2011 at 6:23 pm

Confuzer here…

Once every year I google clubgabbay. Just now I even found a guy who recorded some chat logs but they seem to be from the lobby. I was more the anything goes type ;) I google darkhorse + club gabbay so you might find them too, a few of you are in there.

I just got my first baby, a boy I named Vinz. And just living my life. Funny that my first chat experience glues on me with the nostalgia burning, we are funny that way.

Greetz from the Netherlands,

Fuzz out (Rutger van de Putte on facebook)

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27 RF May 23, 2011 at 6:58 pm

Hi Rutger,

It’s great that you found us and left a note. I think we all appreciate it. I was more of an Anything Goes type also, but towards the end The Lobby was the only room remaining open.

Congratulations on the arrival of your son.

I’ve seen that site you mention. Here’s the link to miscellaneous Club Gabbay chats recorded for posterity.

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28 Kim July 18, 2011 at 2:28 am

Hi guys I recognize some names :) bossman and spectre, Remember ladybug?

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29 Justin July 28, 2011 at 10:20 am

Wow hi guys! I just randomly googled Club Gabbay again and here I am again!

Update on my life: I broke up with April (girlfriend from 2009) and moved back to CT. I am currently attending school for nursing and have a new girlfriend who lives in NJ. We are long distance for the moment but plan to move in together in summer 2012.

I miss everyone and I hope everyone is doing well.

-The story of life is the blink of an eye.
-The story of love is hello and goodbye.

MIA and loved:
CapdWeazel
Rose

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30 RF July 28, 2011 at 10:50 am

Welcome back, again.

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31 Justin July 30, 2011 at 12:31 am

Thank you. It’s good to see you again. Although, you know I never could figure out who you are ( by “you” I mean the person responsible for the whole “two-lanes” and “on the road” thing.) For some reason I have it in my head that you’re MedMan.

I spent some time on the road when I was 19 – 25. I started hitch-hiking but eventually I got tired of waiting hours for rides and switched over to freight trains. I even went to a few of those “Rainbow Gatherings”, but I burnt out on that real quick.

You know, even though I’m in school and I have a wonderful girlfriend and my life is pretty comfy right now… I really miss sleeping on concrete and never knowing what time it is.

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32 RF July 30, 2011 at 9:01 am

Sleeping on concrete can be highly overrated.

As for the time thing, stop wearing a watch. You’ll find yourself being on time for the things you really care about.

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33 Tony August 7, 2011 at 2:37 pm

hey everyone The Lobby was my 1st chat room some of you might remember me as Blackened or Pullimic and I know I used other handles but after 15 years I don’t remember them all feel free to give anyone my e-mail address that asks for it :) congrats to Caryn and Dave on their wedding. I stayed out of anything goes in the beginning as I was only 15 in 1996 and didn’t venture in there until anything goes was already dead it still had a few years before it was shut down and only the Lobby was left but hardly anyone used anything goes unless there was a lemmings attack, hacker or a troll

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34 RF October 5, 2011 at 6:41 pm

I’m glad you found this post. It’s nice to see all the old, familiar faces occasionally, isn’t it?

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35 Squish October 31, 2011 at 8:36 pm

-Found this on a random Goggle search. lol
ClubGabbay.com popped my chat cherry! It was ’96 I was a Freshman in college, experimenting with all sorts of weird things. lol

Let me reintroduce myself. Earth/Vertigo I think I had a couple others, not sure if I was using TriEarth96 back then. Ah, those were the days. I was more of a Lobby person myself, though I did hop around into the occasional, other “chat rooms” I think the internet was such a different place back then, and ClubGabbay was such a crazy place. Dang, I hope Somebody got the Ferrari. I wish all you nuts, a delightful and happy future, where ever the road of life takes you.

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36 Justin December 25, 2011 at 11:32 am

Yeah you’re right. The Internet was a much different place back then. It began to change in the early 2000′s, around the time places like 4-chan and SomethingAwful.com started to become popular.

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37 Justin December 25, 2011 at 11:31 am

Happy Holidays everyone!

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