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The Lobby and Anything Goes

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Update October 2009: With the closing of GeoCities domain and web sites at the end of October 2009, all the old familiar places will be gone for good. Here’s a link to **ArRoW**’s Chat Center guest book. Take a look at some of the old entries for some memorable names.

Update April 2007: It is with great sadness that I announce the passing on April 24, 2007 of Alf, known to us all as Fozzie. While Fozzie was working in his woodlot, harvesting trees to turn them into lumber for a building he wanted to construct, the little Furpot was called to the great kitchen in the sky, where beautiful cooks and lovely waitresses prepare and serve the finest foods and sweetest desserts known to exist, just for him. Fozzie will be sadly missed by all of his good and kind friends from Australia to North America and places in between.

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ClubGabbay's notable chat background

The Lobby chat room background from ClubGabbay

Back in the ’90s there was a chat site known as ClubGabbay, or Anything Goes. It consisted of a number of rooms, most notably the wildly popular “Anything Goes” chamber, but also a room known as “The Lobby”. The crazies – of which I was one, I sheepishly admit – populated Anything Goes, while more sane individuals among us were known to frequent the Lobby.

In the search engines, the site was listed as being one for music appreciation, but from what I saw, no one who came in talked much about music. Eventually, in the late ’90s, the owner of the site attempted to sell his somewhat mediocre audio recordings to fund the operation, but that bombed big-time. Eventually the entire place collapsed into the one remaining room known as The Lobby.

The chat room eventually ended up being given or sold – I’m not sure which – to a couple of people. Then the trolls arrived, during which time a couple of the regulars using multiple handles actually ended up destroying the place. Finally, the Lobby imploded and was closed. The domain remains still, but it comes up as a commercial search site, listing mostly inane plastic cookware and travel sites – such a fall for a once-popular and widely-known series of chat rooms.

During the course of the site’s operation, I went on the road to meet many of the chat site regulars, who were physically located far and wide across North America and the world. Most of those I met were located in North America, but some from offshore ended up visiting, and I eventually rode to meet them also.

When the chat room closed, we were limited to the various messenger services and their limitations. The crazy days were long gone by then, and the sillines that had pervaded the old site no longer ruled in the one-on-one world of the IM chat clients. If you couldn’t post a link to a silly picture, what was the point? Stay in touch without that? No, thanks. Consequently, we all went our various ways, and most ended up falling off the map.

I think it would be mildly interesting to find out what all the crazies are doing now. From personal contact, I know that a few have completed their Masters or PhDs, some have gotten married, others are having babies, and still more are doing what they always did, working away and killing time in other chat rooms or forums. Some have passed on from this life and are now in a kinder, gentler place but will continue to live on in our chat room memories.

It was a fun time in the early days of the wide-open chat room environment, but eventually most of us lost contact while moving on to live our lives.

Here’s a link to a forum, not often used, for all the old familiar faces.

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1 Eugene November 18, 2007 at 4:01 pm

I’m sorry to hear what happend to Foz. He was a nice fellow.

2 RF November 18, 2007 at 5:33 pm

He is missed by all of us.

3 Glenn Dufty October 2, 2008 at 9:41 pm

I lived in the lobby with a ton of friends most of which escape my memory. There was Verdei (California), Bluerose (Melbourne Aus) and Lizardking from Norway. My handle was CrazyCanuck (Glenn Dufty/Toronto/Canada and I’ve lost touch with these people. Anybody have a clue where to find them?

4 RF October 3, 2008 at 6:51 am
5 Justin March 7, 2009 at 1:13 am

Wow I remember the Lobby from ages and ages ago. I remember the stupid Ferrari contest that was up for like a year. I heard Mike gave it to Verdeii or something?

The news about Foz really sucks. I didn’t know him very well but I knew him enough to know that he was an alright dude.

Man, I wish the Lobby was still up. Whatever happened to Damaris? She was such a bitch.

Anyway, when I was 19 I left home and hit the road, hopped some freight trains, lived in national forests, went to Cali, etc. I came back to the east coast, I got a job, live with my girlfriend, and am probably going to become an EMT.

Oh yeah, this is Justin, one of the trolls that was always causing problems. :P

6 Jennie March 24, 2009 at 7:39 pm

I loved that place. I was jenniebear and used to speak to Lizardking, lobo and xoxo mostly. I remember verdeii and damaris as well.

7 Psycho Boy August 15, 2009 at 12:16 pm

This is August 2009 and for some reason I Googled Club Gabbay this morning just to see if it was still around. Found this article. Recognize a few names. It was a fun, fun chat room. I used to love to torment the admin, get kicked off, the log on by another name and torment him/her some more. I’m a lawyer working in SC now, and I try to behave appropriately MOST of the time.

8 joon/justajess October 7, 2009 at 8:05 am

I was Joon.. and then justajess on clubgabbay and made a lot of friends on there. I was friends with CDV, Roses, Damaris, arrow, verdeii, and many others. If you remmber me; just send an email. I miss the old gabbay, I’ve been married for nine and years and I will have my third child in Dec.

9 RF October 7, 2009 at 8:35 am

Joon, I don’t publish email addresses, but if anyone should ask me for it, I’ll get in touch with you to confirm that you indeed want to hear from that person.

10 Lucky January 11, 2010 at 8:57 pm

hey everyone whats up ? sorry to hear about foz man…anyone here from milk ?

11 RF January 12, 2010 at 7:28 am

No, nothing from Milk. I miss her crazy-ass antics.

12 Nicholas Shades April 23, 2010 at 10:34 pm

I was just thinking back to those crazy days and thought to seek some kind of connecting point. So, I made a facebook group “Club Gabbay Reconnection” seek me out and see what we might say again.

13 RF April 28, 2010 at 3:02 pm

Hey Nick, thanks for coming by. Your link doesn’t work. How about coming back and fixing it?

14 Brandon July 22, 2010 at 5:46 pm

Hey it’s Bossman! Talking about a blast from the past. Rf please pass on my email address to anyone that asks. Also get me in contact with Mrs Joon!

What’s everyone doing now? I was just thinking about moonlight, Eli, and some others when I decided to search club gabbay

15 RF August 16, 2010 at 2:38 pm

Oh miiilk, are you out there, hiding somewhere in the world? Are you well? Are you happy? MedMan wants to know.

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